tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post5542988820763101137..comments2023-09-19T11:02:50.976-04:00Comments on Ob/Gyn Kenobi: Dear OMFHdr. whoo?http://www.blogger.com/profile/10315615480530297472noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-32035995312431560792009-05-28T19:25:41.284-04:002009-05-28T19:25:41.284-04:00I am going to be a 2010 ob grad and am starting to...I am going to be a 2010 ob grad and am starting to look for jobs. Could you do me a favor and write a post on do's/don'ts of the job search and perhaps what would have done differently. I would REALLY appreciate it!!MassResnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-11350228613775545322009-05-24T08:44:36.076-04:002009-05-24T08:44:36.076-04:00Isn't it amazing how one single person can make ou...Isn't it amazing how one single person can make our lives hell? You're fortunate to be out of there.OMDGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17937425894428802591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-9808051156658782932009-05-23T12:46:39.594-04:002009-05-23T12:46:39.594-04:00Cat~ The funny thing is, she thinks we are "good ...Cat~ The funny thing is, she thinks we are "good friends." Or, at least she says we are! OMG! If that is how you treat "good friends" how do you treat your enemies?<br /> <br />Amy in OH~ Thank you, my dear. From your lips to God's ears! <br /> <br />Joy~ Boy, did it ever. :)<br /> <br />Dr. Maria~ Yes! Upward and onward...in just a few short weeks! Whee!<br /> <br />The Girl~ Saint! Ha! That's funny...no I am just incredibly masochistic, apparently. I can take a lot of pain, but enough is enough! ;)<br /> <br />Anonymous~ You would think so, wouldn't you? I brought the billing discrepancies to the attention of my superiors several times, and each time it was swept under the rug. You see, we both work for the hospital, so all of the money is essentially going to the same place, but the credit is being misplaced. The "credit" for the billing is how we earn "bonuses." Funny, I have never been credited for a bonus, yet OtherDoc maxes his bonus out every year...fishy, huh?<br /> <br />Anonymous~ Blogging really is such a pressure release for me. I think it helps me hold on to the single strand of sanity that I have left!<br /><br />ER's Mom~ Thank you for the good vibes! Can't wait to be on the other side!! :)<br /><br />mamadoc~ You are so right! Hopefully my cautionary tale will help some young ingenue from making the same mistake! :)<br /> <br />The Mommy Doc~ Thank you for sharing your SIL's story with me. Strangely, instead of making me feel better, it saddens me to know there are others suffering like this out there! Good to know there is life on the other side! Thanks for the good luck wishes!<br /><br />MomTFH~ I don't think I will know what to do with myself when it is all over. I think it will be like a bad dream!<br /> <br />prachi~ Me too. Can't wait!<br /> <br />L.~ You are right, and I thank you for your kind words. Here's hoping the weeks fly by.<br /><br />Anonymous~ Thank you, you are 100%correct, and I am running as fast as I can.<br /> <br />Liz Ditz~ No, I haven't read it. I will look into it, and maybe I'll give it to her as a "going away present!" :)<br /> <br />Anonymous~ Thank you, me too!<br /><br />Momma~ Haha! Thanks! :)<br /><br />Ashley~ Hi! She was the office manager for her husband for 12 years before they became hospital employees. They deny this, but I am pretty sure that it is somehow tied to his contract that she be the manager in that office. <br /><br />I was uncomfortable about the husband/wife combination from the start, but felt falsely protected because I (mistakenly) believed that the hospital did the billing, not her. In hindsight, I would never get involved in a practice that has family members of any kind in positions of authority. That is my best advice to you (good luck!!) Also, hire someone to review any contract before you sign it....know what you are getting into, and know how you can get out of it.<br /><br />As for people proclaiming Christian faith and then acting decidedly non-Christian, I am right there with you. I'm not one to prostyletize, either, but it saddens me when those that choose to do so provide less than stellar examples.<br /><br />Laura~ You have no idea. This blog is such a great outlet.dr. whoo?https://www.blogger.com/profile/10315615480530297472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-4905234010063320782009-05-20T06:27:43.990-04:002009-05-20T06:27:43.990-04:00I bet you feel better getting that off your chest....I bet you feel better getting that off your chest. Whew!Lauranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-80711706500471440212009-05-19T20:25:31.201-04:002009-05-19T20:25:31.201-04:00Oh wow...that sounds like a nightmare--I'm guessin...Oh wow...that sounds like a nightmare--I'm guessing she's just office manager because her husband's the main doc there? Do you feel like in taking the job there were "warning signs" that you could have seen about her before getting in there? Or other questions you should have asked about the office situation? (I'm asking not to be accusatory, but in real earnest b/c I'm a resident who will be facing the "choose an office" struggle one of these days..and wondering if you have any words of wisdom as to what you would have done differently). Also, I really hate when I hear about "Christian people" being such horrible witnesses to those who aren't Christians. Not only are they making all of Christianity look horrible, I think they are more effective at driving people away from Christ than those crazy people who stand on the street corners and preach/prophesy...~Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18354704333578132129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-4810590837377916782009-05-19T20:23:10.779-04:002009-05-19T20:23:10.779-04:00LOVE it!!!!!LOVE it!!!!!MBMeadowshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04075148163904414870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-83603943755698820172009-05-19T13:47:00.000-04:002009-05-19T13:47:00.000-04:00Glad to hear you are getting out of that place!Glad to hear you are getting out of that place!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-74719747544360010042009-05-19T12:46:00.000-04:002009-05-19T12:46:00.000-04:00Have you read Bob Sutton's The No A$$hole rule? S...Have you read Bob Sutton's <A HREF="http://www.amazon.com/Asshole-Rule-Civilized-Workplace-Surviving/dp/0446526568" REL="nofollow">The No A$$hole rule</A>? Sounds like OMFH could use some tuition.Liz Ditzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03455722013211350247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-30416995570492175172009-05-19T00:17:57.776-04:002009-05-19T00:17:57.776-04:00Ob/gyn Kenobi: As the daughter of a doctor, I have...Ob/gyn Kenobi: As the daughter of a doctor, I have seen more office politics play out than you can imagine. When it starts to go south, get out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-72699092873284759612009-05-18T18:51:00.000-04:002009-05-18T18:51:00.000-04:00I hope the remaining weeks pass by quickly for you...I hope the remaining weeks pass by quickly for you. Truly, judgment belongs to the Lord. You may never know how He decides to reward her for the things she has done, but I hope you will be able to rest assured that you did no wrong.<br /><br />Good Luck!ABChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02206900875224122069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-63648794624614565372009-05-18T13:10:00.000-04:002009-05-18T13:10:00.000-04:00I am glad you are leaving Dr WhooI am glad you are leaving Dr Whooprachihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11663235010094198080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-40409680879353864422009-05-18T10:06:00.000-04:002009-05-18T10:06:00.000-04:00Oh, run away! Run away!
It is going to feel so go...Oh, run away! Run away!<br /><br />It is going to feel so good when you're gone.MomTFHhttp://www.momstinfoilhat.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-87546442138638528012009-05-18T01:27:00.000-04:002009-05-18T01:27:00.000-04:00My SIL, an OB-Gyn as well, left an incredibly mali...My SIL, an OB-Gyn as well, left an incredibly malignant practice similar to yours almost 10yrs ago, run by a husband/owner and wife/manager. The combination was very demeaning and stressful for the other doctors (especially having an office manager telling a physician what she can and cannot do in her practice). As a result, they could not keep any doctors for very long. She is still, 10yrs later, thankful that she left when she did and didn't stay a second longer. <br />GOOD LUCK!!The Mommy Docnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-4695132866358716162009-05-17T20:59:00.000-04:002009-05-17T20:59:00.000-04:00What a witch! Never, ever work in an office which ...What a witch! Never, ever work in an office which employees a doctor's spouse in a responsible position--it's never good to have an employee who sleeps with the boss!mamadocnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-62043280937698197482009-05-17T15:07:00.000-04:002009-05-17T15:07:00.000-04:00Sending good vibes your way...because the other si...Sending good vibes your way...because the other side is SO much better!ER's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03203520439121823165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-86369778313889128242009-05-17T12:34:00.000-04:002009-05-17T12:34:00.000-04:00That had to feel good to get that off your chest. ...That had to feel good to get that off your chest. What a relief to be rid of her soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-39584976976742530202009-05-17T10:29:00.000-04:002009-05-17T10:29:00.000-04:00Aren't there legal ramifications to improper billi...Aren't there legal ramifications to improper billing?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-82390363557398428992009-05-17T08:41:00.000-04:002009-05-17T08:41:00.000-04:00Wow, you must be a saint to put up with that kind ...Wow, you must be a saint to put up with that kind of behaviour for so long!!!The Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02368935358031860432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-40219018358399635902009-05-16T22:34:00.000-04:002009-05-16T22:34:00.000-04:00Tell 'er girl ! Good riddance ! Onward! Upward !Tell 'er girl ! Good riddance ! Onward! Upward !Dr. Marianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-83116133386005584232009-05-16T21:23:00.000-04:002009-05-16T21:23:00.000-04:00Bet that felt GOOOOOOOOD!Bet that felt GOOOOOOOOD!Joy@WDDCHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03709113785857792361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-16962989128048669782009-05-16T21:02:00.000-04:002009-05-16T21:02:00.000-04:00Hope your remaining time with OMFH goes quickly.
...Hope your remaining time with OMFH goes quickly. <br />Amy in OHAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-34571937607215632732009-05-16T20:01:00.000-04:002009-05-16T20:01:00.000-04:00Are you sure you and OMFH can't be BFFs? I mean, s...Are you sure you and OMFH can't be BFFs? I mean, she's a "good Christian"!<br /><br />But seriously, I can't believe you didn't run faster and sooner. My gawd!Cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15106900521919644192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-270218973868282072009-05-16T17:06:00.000-04:002009-05-16T17:06:00.000-04:00Alison~ Yes, I am counting down....8 weeks to go!...Alison~ Yes, I am counting down....8 weeks to go! :)<br /><br />That Girl~ Oh no, totally not bitter! ;) Especially now that I have it all off of my chest!dr. whoo?https://www.blogger.com/profile/10315615480530297472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-40948554933735229462009-05-16T16:49:00.000-04:002009-05-16T16:49:00.000-04:00You are not bitter or anything.... lol.
She sound...You are not bitter or anything.... lol. <br />She sounds like a winner!Taking Hearthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11582706569774851613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31146535.post-79716640028142991032009-05-16T16:31:00.000-04:002009-05-16T16:31:00.000-04:00She sounds HORRIBLE.
Glad you will soon be rid of...She sounds HORRIBLE.<br /><br />Glad you will soon be rid of her!Alison aka Baby Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17825788833192752477noreply@blogger.com